The winners “fabricate” optimism. It is the main quality of successful people who are able to see the big picture, irrespective of their momentary failures and set-backs.
If you consistently fail or have few victories, chances are your habits are bad. But if you are able to act and think like the best then you will get the same results.
Here are 10 attitudes to develop.
- Know yourself very well
Directly inspired by know yourself Socratic, the winners know who they are, what they believe in, the role they must play in life to play in the big leagues. Consistently they learn through experiences, feedback, and revelations.
The loser thinks: “The world is flat and that’s how it is”
The winner thinks: “I understand where I come from”
Break the daily routine. Unplug the TV for a month. Go to a new restaurant. Test a new sport.
See yourself through other people’s eyes. Your friends, your parents, your colleagues. What do they think of you?
- Have high self-esteem
Winners have a deep understanding of their value. Although they feel fear and anxiety, the winners do not give in to these emotions. They also use positive language: “I can do it”, “Next time, I will do it better”. Winners accept compliments. They don’t say “oh, it’s nothing”. Losers think modesty should be pushed to the max or made fun of. A winner simply accepts the compliment by saying thank you.
The loser thinks: “I preferred to be someone else”
The winner thinks: “I like what I am”
Be well dressed, do your best, take care of yourself every day.
Use encouraging language, in the form of affirmation
Smile. In all cultures, a smile communicates: I’m fine – and so are you.
- Have self-control
The winners make it work, the losers let things happen. The winners take their responsibility, take control of their life to develop: their skills, their talents, their brains … It is up to us to decide to control our lives.
The loser thinks: “It always happens to me”
The winner thinks: “I made it work”
Take responsibility for your current situation.
Use “I decided to” instead of “I must”.
Learn to meditate, to relax mentally and physically.
- Stay motivated no matter what
The loser thinks: “I have to, I can’t”
The winner thinks: “I want, I can”
The winners have desires. They won’t change for the better. There has never been a winner who did not want to win. Winners have developed the ability to move toward their goals.
Make a list of your 5 biggest and most important desires.
Get in touch with someone who does what you want to do or become.
- Have confidence in the future
All winners can be identified by their confidence in the future. They expect to win for 3 reasons: they want to win, they know it’s up to them to win, they are prepared to win. Those who doubt do not win. The winners have no doubts. The quality. The most characteristic feature of a winner is optimism and enthusiasm.
The loser thinks: “With my luck, I knew I would lose”
The winner thinks: “Good today, better tomorrow. Next time it will be the right one ”
Take problems as opportunities to learn, to improve, to change your situation.
Take care of your social environment. Partner with winners.
- Have a good self-image
Winners think and act like winners. Your personality, situation or behavior is generally consistent with the image you have of yourself. They know that the self-image is hidden in our unconscious. This image is due to our feelings, our fears and our emotional responses to experiences.
The loser thinks: “I’m not attractive, I’m average”
The winner thinks: “I change, I evolve, I mature”
Read a biography – from an expert in your field
Visualize your future successes
- Have a direction for your life
The winners have a plan. They define what they want and then get it. The winners are those who have a life plan . The winners have a clear and specific purpose on which a well-defined plan is based. The others think “I will see what I do, we will advise”. The winners have a goal and they will get there no matter what.
The loser thinks: “I can’t decide”
The winner thinks: “I have a plan”
Establish your life plan ? What are your values?
Talk about your goals with other optimistic people.
- Have self-discipline
Self-discipline is the ability to create good habits. Winners direct their thoughts to create habits that lead them to great performance. Discipline can create a good habit or destroy a bad one.
The lose thinks: “I used to lose”
The winner thinks: “I train to win in my head even when I don’t win”
Be persistent and determined each time you approach your goal
Visualize your objectives with an extreme level of detail as if you had already achieved it.
- Seeing bigger than yourself
The winners got to know each other, to see themselves through the eyes of others. They also understood that it is more important to contribute to something bigger than yourself.
The loser thinks: “Do it to others before they do it to me”
The winner thinks: “I am in harmony with nature and I respect you”
Treat others more often like siblings. Treat animals like people. Treat nature with respect.
Tell someone how dear they are to you.
- Have these attitudes in all areas
You can always spot a winner when he enters a room. The winners project their attitudes, their mentalities every day, in the way they dress, walk, talk, listen and react. They know that the first impression is crucial. Their qualities are reflected in everything they do.
The loser thinks: “Do not confuse me with what I do”
The winner thinks “What I think, what I feel, what I do represent me”
Be enthusiastic, it’s contagious. Go out and act like a winner. These 10 qualities we can develop all of them. Each step ends with a list of missions to complete to develop each of these attitudes. And to go further, stay motivated, read motivational books and seek partnership with self-motivated people. Build your tribe of like-minded people to help each other, excel in your life.