Life is nothing but a series of lessons, events that can allow you to grow. To better understand your environment, your feelings, your strengths, and your weaknesses. In his context, those who adopt a humble, receptive and attentive positioning have a great advantage. That of refusing the obvious. Not to blame others when a problem comes up.
This advantage makes the difference between success and failure. Because questioning comes at the right time. It allows you to find solutions to never lose your courage, your tenacity. Motivating yourself to learn is like adopting a state of mind made up of anticipation, pro-activity, the desire to go further. What about you?
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO LEARN?
Change is inevitable in human life. You cannot stagnate or you will disappear. Whatever you do right now, you know that sooner or later these gains will no longer be enough. This is already in itself a reason to be motivated to succeed. A new language, new technical skills, business methods … whatever you want to master, the difficulty of learning depends on the vision you have. To find the motivation to learn, know for sure that what you want to acquire is part of your life plan. Otherwise, you will have the impression of stirring the air.
ADOPT A MEDIUM-TERM VISION TO REFUSE THE DROP IN MOTIVATION
The difficulty of learning lies in the fact that we focus all too often on the final objective without paying attention to the efforts made. If you want to learn a new language, you cannot wait until you have perfect pronunciation and a solid vocabulary before bringing up the concept of satisfaction. It is not viable. You would lose all motivation before you can exchange it in this dialect. On the other hand, by giving yourself rewards and by being satisfied with the progress made at the time, you allow yourself to maintain this desire to go further.
As is often the case, it’s all about perception. You know how fragile motivation can become when you only focus on concrete and important results. Watch out for mistakes that could cost you your smile and your thirst for achievement!
HOW TO MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO GO OUT (FROM HOME AND YOUR COMFORT ZONE)?
Fear of the gaze of others, failure, comparison, shyness, lack of self-confidence … there are many reasons (all linked to each other for that matter) that push the individual in isolation. If you want to change your life, become a powerful one, know abundance, you will have to rub yourself against reality, to the outside world. Find a way to motivate yourself to go out. I’m not talking about night clubs. Bars. I’m talking about learning factors. A way to stimulate the opportunities that are all around you. A way to live your life by denying fear.
MOTIVATING YOURSELF TO GO OUT ALSO MEANS UNDERSTANDING YOUR OWN NEEDS
Loneliness can give you the time and space to refine your intellectual knowledge. Your reasoning. To research, read, watch videos. Nobody denies that. Everyone needs their little secret garden. From a time and a temple dedicated to personal development. But we also need others. Man is a gregarious animal.
We want to be together. And it is only fear that holds us back. Because deep down, you know very well that if you avoid dating, it is not because of others. It is because of the image you have of yourself. And as you could read it on the blog or discover it through my programs, it is quite possible to improve the image you have of yourself. Build your self-confidence.
DO YOU KNOW THE LAW OF “YES”?
What I am offering you now is a very simple exercise. It will allow you to motivate yourself to go out without asking yourself too many questions. You probably have people around you who invite you, who would like to spend time with you. What you are going to do is accept, without complaining or asking questions, the next 3 invitations that
you will receive. See it as a game. As a challenge.
You have no right to say no. When you get home, you can write down your feelings. Your emotional state. I am sure that in this way you will start a virtuous circle which will make you aware of your worth. Go ahead and let’s talk about it again!
MOTIVATE YOURSELF TO WRITE: USEFUL FOR LEADING A PEACEFUL LIFE?
Writing is a way to free yourself, to formulate interesting, strong reflections. To give them body, heart, depth. To understand each other better, to analyze the obstacles that face us. The problem is, according to many, it is not easy to get motivated to write. You have to find courage and time. In addition, syntax and spelling are also often used as excuses for not getting down to business.
Obviously, there is no obligation. However, if the notions of emotional diary and lists appear in the personal development landscape, it is for a very specific reason. They help manage his life better. State your goals clearly. And knowing what to do to follow them.
WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD!
Successful people are anticipation, not reaction. The difference? The notion of adaptation. The ability to think. Make informed decisions by considering options and possible benefits. Man is an instinctive animal. You have in your reflexes which are specific to you and which are not always the most useful, the most logical.
It’s normal. And when you can motivate yourself to write, you can review it all. See more concretely the impact of your decisions. Finally, move from the world of the idea to the real world. One that leaves traces that allow you to make commitments and face them.