Happiness comes in different ways and can be difficult to characterize. Being happy is the only feeling that can let you change every negative situation into a positive situation. People who are unhappy have different habits and such habits lead them to negative expectations. According to Stanford research people who are unhappy with life is unhealthy well-being and have also shorter life expectancy.
When you see people are miserable or unhappy it’s very hard to stick around or work with such people. So one should always be careful to keep a happy and positive company so that you will not fall in such bad category.
Here are few habits that unhappy people have:
- You can’t forgive
Having any bad or sick sentiments towards any person hardens and makes burden to your soul, mind, and heart. Everybody at some point in life went with a bitterness of people but the people with courage move forward and forgive the wrong ones. This habit leads to the person to a bad taste of mind and heart and becomes the cause to unhappiness.
- Comparing yourself to others
You are disrespecting yourself when you are comparing yourself to others. Unhappy people think there is insufficient goodness to go around and such people trust another person’s favorable luck takes from their own. Everybody is unique in this world with different talents and skills.
- Critical about everything
Unhappy people are usually being critical of not just themselves but also of others. They keep judging others and keep passing negative remarks. Sitting around or working with such a person is itself a big problem. They always try to find bad in good things and that leads them to a hell of negativity.
- Not moving forward
Unhappy people are discouraged and rather than learning, motivating and upgrading themselves, they just keep blaming other things. Before they want to start something new they want to find some sign to make it happen. They usually daydream more than work to move forward and work on their selves.
- Hiding Issues or mistakes
Happy people have the courage and are responsible for their activities. When they commit an error, they claim it. Unhappy don’t claim their mistakes or errors. Issues have a tendency to get larger when they are overlooked. The more you take lightly an issue they more it becomes like that you can’t move on. after it, you start treating yourself like a victim.
Unhappy people mostly keep whining about the things they do. When you see a person complaining about life, you would like to push yourself away from that person. It’s better to stay away from the people who whine because they have a problem for every solution.
Nothing Empowers misery like negativity. Force on yourself to take a better look on the things around you and you will find things are not so terrible as they appear to be. Negativity is root for every bad cause that’s why people who are unhappy are fallen into this category.