“Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their image.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
We all have one or more behaviors inside us which push people away at least once, if not more. This is human nature and nothing anyone has to be ashamed of. The recognition of one or more of these traits is a good step for eliminating them from your life and allow positive energy to enter.
Most of the time, people may not realize or notice that they are pushing people away from there lives.
There are many reasons for that and in this article, we will talk about and focus on what they are and how to overcome such habits.
The small gesture of selflessness can keep the people around you always whom you care the most. Humans, by nature, have a lot of sense to realize the things without acting on them. Just because people won’t act on your selfishness does not mean they don’t know and you may take advantage of them.
How To Fix It:
In order to live happy, peaceful and positive life, you must have to learn how to live with others and enjoy with them wholeheartedly, that means you don’t have to expect something in return, just make sure that you should be the reason to there happiness. Ironically, when you give yourself without expecting you are getting or returned that back and even more.
SO if you need a blessing, change your mind and focus on only one thing “BE THE BLESSING”
Showing conceited behavior is surety that you are pushing people away in your life. Talking about yourself is great when it’s light and authentic. Nobody likes pleasure in something by which you measure your self-worth; or being a reason for pride. It is easy for people to differentiate what you are up to.
How To Fix:
It is always a great idea to let other people in the spotlight and make them feel good in order to make a healthy relationship. Leave the bubbles that you made living in and try to understand people and communicate in a better way and make people happy around you and the blessing will touch you.
Sometimes, people think highly and proud of themselves and their beliefs, actually too high they think. This thinking and their pride will lead them nowhere. In certain cases, with this ego problem people go so far they intentionally want to show disrespect and degrade others. But this is not the way to live the best life and gain a respect.
How To Fix:
To cure this disease one must understand that everyone has different living style and a different standard to live their lives and that is ok. We all here in this world have unique value and no one here is better than anyone else. The best way to live happily is to respect other and honor others as you do it for yourself that is when you become the righteous one.
4. CHRONIC COMPLAINING:
” Opportunity lies where complaints are” – Jack Ma
Happy and successful people do not complain much. They just hold on the positive side even in bad times. But on the other side, the chronic complainers always have something negative to say even when the people around them are happy and in peace.
How to fix:
We are facing different things and problems in life but that does not mean we should leave the positive side and focus on the negative side. And at the end of the day these all problems or different circumstances that are given are ours fair or unfair, wanted or unwanted. Instead, find a solution to problems instead of complaining, which leads to person nowhere.
Add To Comment: What behaviors push you away from others, or what behavior you have shown that have pushed others from you?